About Nicole Heiden

Nicole Heiden Sodoma is the founder and managing principal of Sodoma Law, a family-focused law firm located in Charlotte, North Carolina. With over 25 years of legal experience, she specializes in family law matters, including divorce, child custody, and child support. Nicole earned her Bachelor of Arts from the College of Charleston in 1996, followed by her Juris Doctor from the Cumberland School of Law at Samford University in 2000. Her educational background laid a strong foundation for her successful legal career. In 2008, Nicole established Sodoma Law with a clear vision—creating a "firm family" that prioritizes commitment to clients, the team, and the community. Under her leadership, the firm has expanded significantly, now employing over 50 professionals across multiple states.

The clients includes both local residents and high-profile individuals, such as professional athletes. This growth reflects Nicole's dedication to providing tailored legal services that meet the needs of each client. Nicole's contributions to family law and her entrepreneurial spirit have not gone unnoticed. She has been recognized multiple times by Business North Carolina's "Legal Elite" and has earned accolades as a Super Lawyer for several years. These honors highlight her expertise and commitment to excellence in the legal field. In 2022, she authored her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry," which offers an empowering perspective on marriage, separation, and divorce, further establishing her as a thought leader in family law.

Beyond her professional achievements, Nicole is deeply committed to philanthropy. In 2014, she founded the Sodoma Law Foundation, an organization aimed at supporting initiatives that enhance the well-being of children and promote charitable efforts within the legal community. This foundation exemplifies her belief in giving back and making a positive impact on society. Nicole is admitted to practice law in North Carolina and Washington State, although her Washington license is currently inactive. She is an active member of the North Carolina State Bar and the Mecklenburg County Bar Association, where she serves on the Family Law Section. At Sodoma Law, Nicole continues to lead a dedicated team of professionals who are committed to providing compassionate and effective legal services.

The firm operates multiple offices, including locations at 217 North Graham Street, Charlotte, NC 28202; 339 E — Catawba Street, Belmont, NC 28012; 18825 W Catawba Ave. Suite 150, Cornelius, NC 28031; and 105 S. Main St., Monroe, NC 28112, ensuring accessibility for clients throughout the region.

Accepted Jurisdictions

North Carolina

Court Admissions

North Carolina State Bar State Supreme Court · Admitted 2001

Types of Cases Handled

Family Law Divorce Child Custody Child Support

Legal Services Scope

Litigation Mediation Collaborative Law

Office Locations

Main Office

 211 East Boulevard Charlotte NC 28202